If you don't know me, let me give you a brief introduction: My name is Zara Barrie, and I'm a full-blast, lady-loving lesbian. I love girls as much as you guys do. It's recently come to my attention that some of you may be a little intimidated about going down on a woman Hey, I get it. The first time I ever went down on a girl sophomore year of high school, I think? I mean, the vagina is like this mystical holy grail that unlocks the secrets to the ever-expansive universe. It's actually really not that hard to get a girl off. It's not as easy as getting YOU off, but as long as you follow some basic guidelines -- it's fun and super addictive. We lesbians might as well have honorary doctorates in the art of le girl. With that, I proudly present to you Zara's simple five-step guide to going down on women.
How to Give a Girl Oral Sex That Makes Her Climax
We asked sex educators and sex therapists to share their best advice on how to make it a very satisfying experience for all involved. Note: Just remember these are general tips. Focus on a slow buildup maybe start with a body massage or a make-out session , then pay special attention to the clitoris, which, for many women, must be stimulated in order for them to have an orgasm. Try circles, moving your tongue up and down, or left to right. When going down on your partner, you can supplement some tongue action by using your hands to stroke the clitoris, play with the labia or finger her. Using your hands can double or even triple the amount of sensation you can create, and can give your mouth a break when you need it. Mind reading is overrated. The best way to know what a woman wants in bed is simple: Ask her. Too much between-the-sheets chitchat may not seem sexy to some, but your commitment to making your partner feel amazing will be appreciated. We promise.
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For me, going down on a woman I love often feels like sitting down to a steak dinner after 40 days in the desert. In my research for this article, it turns out that a lot of i. Some men seem to be absolutely hopeless with oral sex. This is all good news for you. Want to give a woman the best oral sex of her life? Here is the low down on going down.
A reader asks:. We seem to get asked this one a lot So let's address it: how to give a girl oral sex.