You would, however, be preoccupied with the recovery and wellbeing of your partner or spouse. Respondents noted they still wanted sex, experienced orgasm and desired their partners post-LLA. They also felt some areas of their sexual lives had improved somewhat following LLA as the problems associated with the amputation such as chemotherapy, pain or infection had hampered intimacy previously. The way in which they had sex did change.

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Amputation affects life in many different aspects but one a facet of life sometimes over looked is amputee sex. Amputee sex can be very enjoyable if you are aware of a few key points and if you look at products like the IntimateRider to help in the area of amputee sex. Body Image — Amputee sex can be limited if we think too much about body image. We have been concerned with our body image most of our lives and amputees not only need to deal with how their body feels and works but also how it looks. The key is to not focus on what is missing and avoid negative body image thoughts.
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Because it is a sensitive and personal issue, I did not feel comfortable broaching the topic with amputee mentors. I was left to deal with my fears and emotions on my own, which probably made my adjustment more difficult. Like any disability or lasting change to our body, amputation and limb loss can lead to honest doubts and uncertainties, such as those expressed above, stated by Peggy Chenoweth in an article for The Mighty. Those concerns range from the small to the significant, and extend to every corner of life. While limb loss and amputation may require adaptations and modifications to your intimacy, it should not diminish the quality, vibrancy, and satisfaction of your sex life. As with all couples, as with all sex, communication is key. When having sex after amputation there are some things that each partner should keep in mind:. As you first prepare for intimacy after your amputation, remember that the only appropriate pace is the one that feels right to you.
I have decided to tackle discussing a sensitive issue which impacts everybody in the limb loss community — sex after an amputation. My goal is to be honest without being graphic. I am certainly no expert on the subject. But as a sexually active amputee woman who is happily married with two children, I can speak frankly about my experiences. I began to worry about the impact of my limb loss on my ability to be intimate before my amputation surgery.