He's so used to me saying that I sometimes wonder why he even has to ask. Needless to say, my life is a little bit crazy. Within a cultural group marriage is hard. I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot. She's already past her prime in the Mormon dating market.
She drove an old Dodge Neon during her cash-strapped residency and fellowship. I also felt like I could never be a good wife. Love and support them just as you would if your husband was a carpenter. I would like to compliment the brave ladies for being the strong spouse and keeping the marriage moving forward. After a lot of thought during that relationship with a non-Mormon, I laid out exactly what struggles I was probably going to face: I was worried about my own faith. Their job is HARD.
I hope so; otherwise I will have spent the best years of my life putting him thru grad school and med school. Some say, they love wearing it, it gives them "protection from evil". And no one has the right to judge you for your decision. Now a basic overview of the gospel. I think the only thing that can possibly be worse is if he was working in a different country.
It is hard for the others to understand my situation, people must just think that you don't need to worry about anything, but this is not the case. Do people that are that busy honestly not have time to even think about their SO. He's so used to me saying that I sometimes wonder why he even has to ask. You will desire to have that eternal marriage, to have that support in taking kids to church, to be able to talk docterine with a like-minded individual. He is on call ALL the time, he arrives home 9 pm and barely sit down for diner and then gets called away, then again 2 am heart attack. Does she understand that for a long-term relationship to succeed that the partners must treat each other as equals. Before it started he got me a puppy that I maybe didn't really want to keep me company to help deal with the loneliness, so at least hopefully he understands.
